For the couple
WE ARE, IN THE COUPLE
Each being is unique and complete from birth. When we become intimate, a readjustment of the shared balance occurs, a new doing, a new loving and a new understanding are created together. In this movement, if each one does not continue to give each other space and complete legitimacy, in the long run, the new balance together will become unsustainable and they will feel the irrepressible need to march, despite the shared love . So over and over again, until he manages to fully recognize himself within a relationship, sharing from our differences as complete beings of equal value.
In this monograph we will review how we give ourselves complete space within our relationships and we will move to recover it so that it is the fertile foundation of well-being in all our relationships.
WE LOVE, IN THE COUPLE
The couple is a place to share the love that we have within us, not where to find the love that we lack. The second never works, the link runs out and dies. The love we have is the love we have learned to give to ourselves through the love we have learned to receive from our family systems, our caregivers, and in all our subsequent relationships. each one nourishes the bond by sharing what he gives himself. If we give each other love, we will share love, if we feel the need for the other's gaze, we will offer feelings of lack in the couple, if we are afraid of not having the other's gaze, we will offer fear to the relationship and possibly undernourish it until the bond of love runs out and may die.
In this monograph we will review how we learned to love each other in our family systems. Due to inertia, it is the model that we tend to repeat if we do not give it a new conscious look. They shared with us as much as they had and knew, it was complete so that we could exist, but it is in our hands to improve this model of love, nutrition and recognition towards ourselves from us to make it possible to share it and fertilize even more our love relationships.
WE ACCOMPANY, IN THE COUPLE
By nature, each one has complete power over himself and what he agrees to live. We have no power over what the other person generates in their life with us and the other person is not responsible for what we live with them, although it is often hard to see that this is not the case. No one has any power over us that we are not giving them. Our Power to decide and take care of our space is always complete. It may happen that we learned models in which this power was given out of gratitude, it was attributed to other people out of insecurity, it was given out of comfort, it was given up out of loyalty... From all these models, the sensitive being that we carry inside feels helpless and he begins to connect with the fear of not being able to survive if we do not protect him and he begins to feel the need to control that someone cares for him... and this takes up all his energy, not being able to dedicate it simply to being from the lightness and confidence of always feeling careful. The only person who can offer our sensitivity the complete care it needs is ourselves, since we are the only look that can be connected to all our internal feelings, and being present 24 hours a day.
When each one covers this responsibility with himself to share with the other person from a comfortable place and not from lack and need. This state of internal calm translates into self-confidence, peace and love, which will be the feelings that we can share with the other people with whom we are intimate.
In this monograph we will review how we manage in our relationships our power to care for and take responsibility for ourselves and respect that the other person cares for and takes responsibility for their well-being for themselves, in their own way. We will accompany you until you find a state of complete self-empowerment of each one, being able to accompany us together, taking care of everything we feel in our lives and our relationships.